TBMs give me a headache!!

I spent a lot of time last night defending my non-celestial marriage to them. The topic was brought up on MC about if people who aren't mormons can still be happy. They all said yes but to be careful that it wasn't Satan in his wily ways just giving you a false sense of happiness. Yah, 'cause Satan so wants us to be happy. I thought he didn't. Anyway the topic of temple marriage came up and having never married in the temple I though I would just let them know that I didn't think that God would fault my family for it. I told them that I believed that God would keep my family intact in heaven temple marriage or not. Well did I get a cyber earful or what. Nope, they tell me, unless your dh gets baptized and you get sealed you won't be showing up in the CK. They weren't going to sugar coat it for me. Even if it was hard for me to hear they weren't going to let me go on deluding myself. Awww thanks guys!!! What an uplifting crowd!!
Long story short, I told them I wasn't going to believe in temple marriage until God himself told me I had to, and I hadn't gotten that memo from him yet. Then I was told that I shouldn't question God's divine plan(normally I really like the girl who said this) to which I replied, "I am not questioning God's plan I am questioning those who think they know what God's plan is."
I am not going back to that topic. They will never stop trying to convince me how wrong I am and I am afraid I will say something I regret. So I will just stick to topics that are about nothing in particular. At least until I get another bug up my ass!!